What Are the Benefits of Using Mediation When You Separate and Divorce in Ontario?
Separating or divorcing can be one of the most challenging experiences in life. However, choosing mediation over traditional litigation can make the process smoother and less stressful. At Teal Family Mediation, we understand the unique benefits of mediation and are here to guide you through this journey. In this blog post, we'll explore the numerous advantages of mediation for separation and divorce, highlighting why it may be the best choice for you and your family.
Understanding Mediation
Mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral third party, known as a mediator, helps separating or divorcing couples reach mutually acceptable agreements. Unlike court proceedings, mediation is confidential and allows couples to maintain control over the decisions affecting their lives. This process generally covers all aspects of separation and divorce to be included in a separation agreement, including a parenting plan, child support, spousal support and property division.
To learn more about the family mediation process in Ontario, read our blog: How Does Mediation Work for Separation and Divorce in Ontario?
Key Benefits of Family Mediation in Ontario:
1. Fulfill Your Legal Duties: Before applying to court, separating spouses have a legal duty under the Divorce Act to try to resolve their issues using a family dispute resolution process, such as mediation, to the extent that it is appropriate to do so. Parents also have a legal duty to protect their children from the harm of parental conflict under both federal and provincial laws. Family mediation can help you meet these legal duties. You can find more information about your legal duties and these recent changes to the Divorce Act on the Government of Canada website.
2. Protect Your Children: Family mediation is child focused. The guidance and resources provided are aimed at promoting the well-being of children, reducing conflict and promoting your ability to successfully parent together during this time of transition and into the future. Family mediation also provides you and your co-parent the opportunity to create a custom parenting plan – which you design together - tailored to meet your unique family circumstances and your children’s individual needs.
3. Focus on Your Future, Not Your Past: Mediation is a future looking process that is focused on reaching mutually agreeable solutions, without placing blame or finding fault. This is in contrast to more adversarial processes like court that often focus on past history and blame, which only amplifies conflict and keeps you stuck in the negative energy of the past.
4. Have Your Voice Heard: In the mediation process you will be communicating directly with one another - with your mediator’s guidance - allowing both of your voices to be heard. This is in contrast to legal negotiations or court, where your voices are filtered through lawyers or reduced to written letters and court documents.
5. Save Money: One of the most significant benefits of mediation is its cost-effectiveness. Traditional divorce litigation can be prohibitively expensive due to the legal fees and court costs involved in extended legal battles. In contrast, mediation generally involves much lower costs. This is usually true, whether you chose mediation without lawyers or lawyer-assisted mediation. By choosing mediation, couples in Ontario can save a substantial amount of money, making it a financially sensible option.
6. Save Time: Court proceedings can drag on for months or even years, prolonging the emotional and financial strain on both parties. Mediation, however, typically resolves disputes much more quickly. The flexibility of scheduling mediation sessions means that couples can work through their issues at their own pace, often leading to faster resolutions. This efficiency allows both parties to move forward with their lives sooner.
7. Maintain Control Over the Outcome: Family mediation gives you the ability to maintain control over your negotiations so you can achieve the final outcomes you want for your family. This is in contrast to the court process where a judge unfamiliar with you or your children make decisions for your family and is bound by the “one-size fits all” legal model.
8. Reduce Stress: Family mediation can minimize the emotional stress for those involved in the separation and divorce process. With the assistance of a trained, kind and compassionate mediator, a safe space can be created in the mediation process to give participants equal voice in communicating their individual and collective goals and interests, without engaging in stressful and harmful combat.
9. Minimize Future Conflicts: The custom-tailored agreements reached through direct discussion in the family mediation process are generally lasting resolutions, in comparison to circumstances where a decision is imposed upon people -which they are often unhappy with. However, should future conflicts arise which you cannot resolve directly, you can agree to return to the mediation process for help in working together to find a solution.
10. Protect Your Family’s Privacy: Unlike the Court process which is public, family mediation is a private and confidential process. All mediation participants are asked to sign a 'Mediation Agreement' to protect privacy and confidentiality.
11. Improved Communication and Cooperation: The mediation process encourages open and respectful communication. This can be particularly beneficial for couples who will continue to co-parent their children. Mediation fosters a cooperative relationship, helping parents to establish a workable parenting plan and improve their communication skills. This improved dynamic can significantly benefit the children involved, as it promotes a more harmonious post-separation environment.
Why Chose Teal Family Mediation?
At Teal Family Mediation, our lawyer-trained mediators bring a wealth of legal knowledge and compassionate guidance to the mediation process. We specialize in helping couples navigate the complexities of separation and divorce with a focus on achieving fair and lasting agreements.
We are forward thinking and conscious family law professionals. We are among the first mediators in Ontario to team up with Our Family In Two Homes to offer their workbooks as part of our mediation process. We are also among the first group of Ontario family law professionals to be trained in the ConsciousContracts® Process. Our technologies improve the level of convenience and service we provide with virtual mediations, automated processes and online forms and billing.
Depending on your location and comfort level, our team offers both our team offers both in person virtual mediation services across Ontario for your convenience.
We also offer complimentary Discovery Calls to help you decide if our mediation services are the right fit for your family. These free consultations provide an opportunity for you to meet with a member of our team to understand the mediation process, ask questions, and determine if mediation is the right choice for your situation.
To assist you further, we have created a free Mediation Process Guide. This guide provides valuable insights into what you can expect during mediation and how to prepare for it.
We can work it out. Together.
Teal Family Mediation is team of professional family law and divorce mediators located in Hamilton, Ontario offering mediation services for separating married and common-law couples and co-parents. We offer an alternative to high-cost, inefficient and adversarial court proceedings with an affordable, modern and compassionate approach towards resolution.
We offer services in-person at our offices located in the Ancaster, Meadowlands and virtually from anywhere in Ontario.
You can download our free Mediation Guide to learn more about our services or connect with us today to book a complimentary Discovery Call where we can answer any questions you may have.
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Disclaimer: none of the information in this blog post should be construed as providing legal advice. Should you have questions about your legal rights and obligations, or about your legal process options when you separate, you should consult with an independent lawyer to receive legal advice.